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> Not to be mean spirited

In the history of human interaction, has anyone said that and not then followed it up with something arrogant and dickish?

> I've gotten every job I've ever interviewed for that I really wanted

Of course you have. And the jobs you didn't get you later decided you must not have really wanted enough. I wonder how you would have felt about those jobs if you had gotten them.

We get it, you're a super impressive person. You can stop trying so hard to impress us now.




> In the history of human interaction, has anyone said that and not then followed it up with something arrogant and dickish?

Of course not. I take that to mean "what I have to say I cannot say in a way that is not dickish, so understand that I'm not doing it with the purpose of hurting you".


He may also be in an industry or an area where given a certain bar of quality and a friend at whatever company you are applying to, you get in. From my viewpoint, it's super common in engineering.


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> and not then followed it up with something arrogant and dickish

I remember a comedian saying that he likes to say "I don't want to sound racist, but" and then follow it up with something that actually wasn't racist. As in "I don't want to sound racist, but do you have the time?" or "I don't want to sound racist, but can you tell me the way to High St?"


I wish I could remember which comedian this was, I distinctly recall the line as "I don't mean to sound racist, but could you pass the salt" in reference to reclaiming phrases that are usually negated by what follows.



Neal Brennan's Netflix special


Also Demetri Martin


Ah yes, Martin was the one I heard. Thanks for the reminder.




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