I think the latter's assumed to be better: you get lots of sex, and although you don't get many repeats, you get a lot of access. It'd suck once you fell in love, though.

On the other hand, the former could be spun into a good situation. If your reputation is that horrible (worst in the world) and widespread, people would sleep with you on dares, find out that you're actually awesome, and you could marry the one of them you liked the most.