When I read the title of Paul's latest post "What I've Learned from Hacker News" I was hoping he was going to talk about what things he's learned from the stories and discussions here that stand out, not what he's learned about running the site itself. So I figured that may possibly make an interesting Ask HN question.
What important/useful things have you learned from the stories and discussions here that stand out to you?
I've also learned to react to others' opinions in a more thoughtful and objective manner. The culture here encourages me to consider how people may interpret what I say. People here will listen to you if you speak calmly and rationally, even if you're misguided.
It's one thing to read comments written by people who know more about a subject than I do. It's quite another thing to read comments that are crafted with more emotional maturity and wisdom than I would have. That kind of experience just does not happen to me on other social news sites, and it is why I keep coming back here.