Same, -j32 with 64GB on a 3950x. I use 50% of ZRAM, but it’s still not enough most of the times, so I had to make a config called less-threads that only uses 24, with ZRAM enabled.

I also use OOMD, but I have to work on separating my systemd units better, OOMD has killed my greetd session before, and with that my entire tree of userland processes :D