My girlfriend enter a new job and she told me about some scenario related to IT, kind of asking for my input. At one point she told the IT guy, who was discussing through emails or chat, that they should hop on a call. I told her that the IT guy probably hated that, but she couldn't understand why.
I think speaking to people is a stressor, it's an activity that drains energy, like running or literally doing anything, but IT people can go for weeks without talking to people, so they have that muscle atrophied and even the slightest of real life interactions feels like excessive to them.
This article is just peak IT. Collaboration is normal man, you probably didn't invent a "it's your call" solution to the "problem" of collaborating in companies. I wish you the best of luck in building your social skills.
I think speaking to people is a stressor, it's an activity that drains energy, like running or literally doing anything, but IT people can go for weeks without talking to people, so they have that muscle atrophied and even the slightest of real life interactions feels like excessive to them.
This article is just peak IT. Collaboration is normal man, you probably didn't invent a "it's your call" solution to the "problem" of collaborating in companies. I wish you the best of luck in building your social skills.