Coming from a north american public school, I can't imagine one's family paying large sums of money to send you to a boarding school... just to be some older boy's servant. Get your own ass up, or don't, not my problem. I am by no means a rabid libertarian but that kind of environment would drive me to it.
Chances are your public school doesn't have boarders.
If your parents/ siblings ever woke you up...they were fagging (if not voluntary).
Admittedly, some fag systems were just pure bullying, but generally not.
If course, the smokers - after being woke up - would go outside and suck on a fag, but that's another story.
I would pay large sums of money to have my kids learn the lesson that there is a hierarchy and one must always start on the bottom to understand every layer.
That isn’t what one learns. One learns to cheat, lie, and steal, and to exploit systems and manipulate people. You don’t survive if you play by the rules.