Wish C++ fixed some of its mistakes in the standard library. std::regex is embarrassing when even Python can beat it and nobody uses std::unordered_map due to its pointer chasing. Basic Maps are something that you shouldn't need to use a third party library for.
The standard guarantees that you can get a pointer to an object in the map and this pointer will remain valid after rehashing and insertion/deletion of other elements. That basically forces implementers to use “buckets with linked lists”, also known as separate chaining. This is not cache friendly (and also suffers from excessive allocation). Other hash map implementations like abseil's don't provide this guarantee so they can put everything right there inline, which is much more efficient.