I totally agree with the poster, but at the same time it feels a little pretentious. I think people might have more fun if they just hung out with people that make them feel good, which may include 'people who get shit done' or 'people who are not overly judgmental' or 'people who really like playing magic'. It's easy to get caught up in constant productivity. There is merit to the phrase 'stopping to smell the flowers'. 2cents.
Exactly. I hang out with my friends because we don't do shit together. We hang out, talking about random stuff, watch TV, play video games, etc. Most of the best times of my life have been when my friends and I aren't doing shit. Separately, we're all very productive, but our friendships aren't based on that.