A takeaway for me is to be extremely tight with personal information on the internet. People will use this to craft a situation to fool you.
Are you married? Have a house? Pets? Children? Sick parent? Gay? Trans? Mental health issues? Disabled? All of this can be used against you. Be careful where and how you share stuff like this. I know it's not "cool" to be mysterious online anymore, but it creates a much larger attack surface. People can still engage with groups around these things, but better to do it with various personas than to have one trackable identity with everything attached to it.
Are you married? Have a house? Pets? Children? Sick parent? Gay? Trans? Mental health issues? Disabled? All of this can be used against you. Be careful where and how you share stuff like this. I know it's not "cool" to be mysterious online anymore, but it creates a much larger attack surface. People can still engage with groups around these things, but better to do it with various personas than to have one trackable identity with everything attached to it.