I'm also not diagnosed but I certainly have some traits. Especially Asperger traits. I'm not sure if I have it either. I've asked some professionals and they all tended towards no, though most were a long time ago. Personally I think yes. Someone else said it could be ADHD which I also have some overlap with but also not a strong match.

But I'm not going out of my way to label it. I'm clearly not neurotypical but whatever label I put on it doesn't really change that. Learning to live with it does make it a lot more bearable though.