I have a Model 3 (2018) and a Model Y (2022) and both are largely without issues.
I think people meme hard on Tesla to make them sound like the most unreliable car out there for some reason, when in reality you occasionally have fit and finish issues and a normal amount of unreliability.
Stats dont lie and you are right, but it feels brittle somehow. Thin metal and cheap rubber. Also that centre console gets really boring after a while, although it looks good.