But if women want to help, they will need to be respectful and caring and devoted and deferential and other things that feminism frowns upon.

It looks to me that men and women are going in different directions. And unless that changes there will be a substantial demographic meltdown within the next two generations.

In many species, what brings the sexes together is only necessity and coercion. Take that away and the species would disappear. Maybe humans are headed that way.