Most people learn C++ as a feature-by-feature increment over C. This means they generally write function-oriented programming with objects instead of object-oriented programming, mix exceptions with returning errors, stick with pointers and char*'s instead of references and string's, and end up rewriting data structures before finding out about STL.

That being said I use some features of C++ I like (inheritance and STL) and while the result is somewhat bastard C/C++ it does what I need well, which at the end of the day is all we should really ask for from a language.