If the only constant in the equation is you, maybe you should re-evaluate your assumptions? I am unable to determine if this was a on-time event for you or if this is an ongoing problem, so this is a question not a judgement.
I never tried to generalize this. This was just a report of how I see the problem. In response to the comment that described their personal attitude. I wrote it to illustrate that there are concerns other than those voiced in the top comment. This would offer the author an insight into how others have dealt with the situation they found themselves.
I don't see why based on above I need to reevaluate something about myself? Which part?
