I can't agree with you more about how demotivating Unity is to work with. waiting for 5 seconds every time I save a C# file and another 5 seconds when I press play (on a new, small project), rolling a d4 to see if the engine crashes, fighting VCS with random changes to files I haven't touched every time I open the editor, absolutely no clear direction about how I should be building if I start a project today.. I could go on and others already have.

it's sad, because I can see what Unity could be (and what it used to be), and it is just not there right now.

I still haven't "clicked" with Godot, but I'm eager to give v4 a try now that it is officially released.