You can always get a lugged custom steel frame, especially in the US. It isn't going to be a bargain, but it will be specially taylored for your body. Otherwise there's Crust, All-City, Rivendell or other quality brands. Or Surly if you want the cheaper overbuilt stuff. See the links below for inspiration.

https://bluelug.com/bike-catalog https://www.lafraisecycles.com/bikes