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So, I'm 42 at the time this took place. I had just gotten a divorce... I met a nice, 24 year old, and we began dating.

She was a great person, but very much a SJW. She had no compunction about making outrageous demands about my personal speech patterns.

Two incidents that stuck out:

I have a cousin who has FAS or is autistic, or both. He texts me 20x a day at least, and I happened to mention it and say my cousin was "retarded". She lit me up saying I should know better than to use that word-- and I explained to her that was the clinical term for people such as him. Was not meant as an insult.

Another time, I made a joke by answering a question she had in a pseudo-gay accent-- a lateral-lisp. She lit me up again for making fun of gay people-- which I was not doing at all. And I explained to her that I went to speech therapy for YEARS to get rid of that exact lisp and it was something that I owned because I was born with it, as opposed to folks who adopted it to indicate group membership.

We didn't last long as a couple :-)



Regardless of this language thing, the difference is 18 years which is a whole different generation.




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