Got married at 45, moved to the US at 49 and have had a great 10 years here and life is good. Before then I was not in a good place, same for my future wife, we got lucky and found each other and then made it work. Some luck/work was involved - met my wife as we were both running websites for our respective daughters soccer teams, got my job in the US because I was active in the online s/w tester community and saw a posting for a job in Michigan which turned out to be the best move I ever made.