Why? Did the community give to him? It certainly sounds like it hasn't. What obligations does one have to a community that doesn't give back?
> There are so many better ways to handle such a situation.
Better for who? You? Or him?
If open-source communities want open-source, they're going to need to come to grips with the need for people to eat, and to do that they are at minimum going to need to pass the hat. If they're not going to do that, this happens, and telling somebody who isn't you what they should do for "the community when "the community" doesn't support them is, frankly, wrong verging on immoral.
Why? Did the community give to him? It certainly sounds like it hasn't. What obligations does one have to a community that doesn't give back?
> There are so many better ways to handle such a situation.
Better for who? You? Or him?
If open-source communities want open-source, they're going to need to come to grips with the need for people to eat, and to do that they are at minimum going to need to pass the hat. If they're not going to do that, this happens, and telling somebody who isn't you what they should do for "the community when "the community" doesn't support them is, frankly, wrong verging on immoral.