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Some practical things I’ve learned after a year:

1. Pace yourself. You’re going to want to try to do as much as you can with your newborn/infant but sometimes they’re just not ready for it. If you try to be very extra with your child on day one, you’re going to burn yourself out. A corollary is to appreciate the free time you get.

2. Children all develop in their own way so don’t freak out if your experience something different than what you read online.

3. Fear about SIDS is so incredibly overblown. I think the latest that we know about SIDS is that it’s a genetic thing. You should keep your baby’s area relatively clutter free to minimize suffocation risk but you don’t have to spend every waking hour of your life worrying about if they are breathing.

4. If you plan to formula feed, get a baby brezza. It saves so much time. Don’t believe the negative reviews, my baby is thriving.

5. You can’t spoil a child when they’re an infant. Don’t be afraid to give them all the love they need, especially when they’re crying. You’re not doing anybody favors by letting them cry things out.

6. Be empathetic to your partner as you are now sharing a foxhole with them.




> Fear about SIDS is so incredibly overblown. I think the latest that we know about SIDS is that it’s a genetic thing.

Smoking is a huge risk factor so don’t! Don’t even smoke outside the house and drag in that stink on your clothes. It’s Best quit for your kids.


Yes. Definitely do heed all of the warnings regarding SIDS/suffocation. Beyond that, excessive paranoia is unnecessary!


On point 4, be aware of potential risks with Baby Brezza: https://www.nytimes.com/2020/03/13/technology/baby-brezza-fo...


Indeed. They need to be cleaned often - I purchased several dispensing funnels so that I can swap them in and out interchangeably and not have to clean them on the spot. Haven't seen any issues with it and so the benefits have far outweighed the downsides, which ppl must be mindful of.


Solid advice here!




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