Yes, cities are (almost by definition) more crowded. What is subjective is when they become overcrowded. By a pragmatic metric (say, infrastructure spending per capita) that's not happening in cities even most Europeans would consider overcrowded.
They're also louder, but that noise is contained within relatively small pockets. Fans of quiet suburbia need not worry.
2. Overcrowding doesn't even make sense. Thats just a subjective opinion.
3. Cities aren't loud cars are loud[0]
[0]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CTV-wwszGw8