I'm currently doing work that uses Elixir's Ecto which goes a great deal towards what I think you're aiming at. I can write my SQL in a familiar, yet functional and composable style; while knowing what SQL will be produced in the end. Ecto, as I understand it, was inspired by Microsoft's/c# LINQ. I've not worked with that, but heard similar praises for that as exists with Ecto.

I'm saying this as with most of my experience being in SQL.