That's not a general observation about all, or even most, "crypto fans" as the earlier comment implied but rather just part of the Ethereum community. And it was still decentralized, as a majority of the users of Ethereum had to agree to the fork before it could take place. The DAO fork was a bad decision and set a poor precedent but it's unlikely to be repeated—a fork in the chain at this point would have too much impact on too many other tokens to be a viable solution to a single buggy smart contract.

Are you saying the fork was a bad thing? Or are you critiquing crypto people for not living up to their values?

For both points, I'd like to mention that there is no universal value set or profile.

Neither; I'm answering the question about "where you’ve seen this sentiment from crypto fans", and this is a solid example of it.