Rule Number One: The ISO C++ Standard Working Group is not the source of your life dissatisfaction. Neither is your current choice of programming language (unless it's Java).
The WG isn't even one group. It is just a lot of people drawn together to work on what will end up one thing, the next Standard. And then another. Any impression of coherency is illusory.
A programming language isn't going to bring you real joy, that can only come from within.