Bluetooth issues are often associated with endpoint security software such as jamf, crowdstrike and carbon black. If these issues are happening on your work laptop especially, you might have those things installed on them without you realizing it.
Apple's attitude towards endpoint security software is basically, "it's stupid and you shouldn't have them installed, our recommendation is to uninstall them" so that's that.
"Third party “endpoint security” software may cause slow simulators, system freezes, or prevent debug processes from running in simulators reliably. This sometimes manifests as debugserver disconnections or simulator applications receiving a SIGKILL signal. (55853555)
Workaround: Uninstall the third party software."
Note that this also was when Apple released the EndpointSecurity framework specifically made to sandbox these sorts of corporate malware in user space and outside the kernel.
Apple's attitude towards endpoint security software is basically, "it's stupid and you shouldn't have them installed, our recommendation is to uninstall them" so that's that.
https://developer.apple.com/documentation/xcode-release-note...