Your understanding is incorrect. Apple can, and is in fact required to, verify that they have actual CSAM before forwarding it to the Cyber Tip line. At that point, they must delete the information within 60 days.
Interesting. In that case, do you know why they talk about reviews only seeing "visual derivatives" (from the second perceptual hash)?
Either these 'derivatives' basically contain the original image (so reviewers can verify that it's actual CSAM) and there's no point in using derivatives at all, or they're more abstract (eg. 8x8 pixellated images) in which case the reviewer can't see the actual content (but could confirm a database match).
Edit: I was able to find the answer, they suggest that the 'visual derivative' is something like a 'low-resolution version' of the original image, so the content should still be clearly visible.
Apple claims that “data minimization” is one of their privacy pillars, and this was probably an attempt at that. You could imagine an inverted colors or lower res image gets the point across without subjecting you or Apple to all the high fidelity images you have in your library.