> Or - hear me out - the partner was embarrassed to verbalize that she's competing with the friend's engagement ring, and therefore created a less embarrassing, post-hoc rationalization as to why she wants a $40k ring too. Here's a thought experiment - had the friend gotten a $6k ring, would she have asked for a ring closer to $6k or still gone with $40k, by some intuition?
Marginally better, but still greatly concerning that the person you're supposed to trust most is too embarrassed to communicate openly imo.
Marginally better, but still greatly concerning that the person you're supposed to trust most is too embarrassed to communicate openly imo.