I am reminded of the quote from Malcolm X: "The only way the problem can be solved -- first, the white man and the black man have to be able to sit down at the same table. The white man has to feel free to speak his mind without hurting the feelings of that Negro, and the so-called Negro has to feel free to speak his mind without hurting the feelings of the white man. Then they can bring the issues that are under the rug out on top of the table and take an intelligent approach to get the problem solved."

This quote, in a more complete context, starts at 1:06 in this clip: https://www.facebook.com/Malcolmxvideos/videos/4725356262694...