Even in the German country side, sometimes water is coming from your own well for ages. Usually houses are connected to electricity, phone and maybe TV. Waste water tends to be on site as well. My uncle is living between two farms, next to my late grandparents house, and that always has been their set up.
Edit: Heating used to be oil, replaced by wood pallets. Heat pumps are a nice alternative as well.
Today we can generate electricity on site, which leaves phone an internet.
Does it mean without any normal roads? Well you can find that in VA easily if you know where to look.
No power lines? Harder, unless you can accept that power line exist but you simply won't use them.
No water pipes? In a rural environment, having central water would be rare.