I am divorced in NJ as of 2015. As per standard procedure, money is collected from my paycheck and sent to NJ probation who disperses it to my ex-wife for child support and alimony.

The issue is in question: NJ Probation erroneously thought I was in arrears. I got a NJ judge to vacate e.g. to tell NJ probation no money was owed. Regardless, NJ probation took money after this judgement from my Federal tax refunds, and bonuses.

I asked for that money back. Another Judge at the same court denied my request saying I'd waived my rights to it. There is no dispute the money was taken, or in the amount taken. My ex-wife and her attorney were aware that I had overpaid previous to the Judgement, and I communicated with NJ probation to no ultimate effect numerous times prior to the Judge vacating the alleged amount owed. NJ Probation told me they will not take action without a Judge's order, which I got. Nonetheless they proceeded to take money anyway.

I am appealing this case to the Appellate level. What can I do to win on appeal?