> Way higher than yours.

> You seem to tie your self worth to college prestige.

The fact that you seem to bring this up often makes me think you do too. It's honestly unnecessarily cruel.

I don't, I'm just intrigued at the fact that someone in their 20s is bothered by this. Will this define who you are ? You probably would have worked at a FAANG post Duke as well. I think you wanted some "recognition" from your family ? Is that it ?