No no they aren't; there is an enormous political, academic and corporate movement to get and keep them and they certainly haven't dealt with anywhere near the general BS any nerd deals with growing up or being in tech; 90% of the time it's just complaints identical to yours; - Complete fabrications to appear a victim. - Complaints about things that everyone else deals with but due to equality feeling like oppression, suddenly the treatment equal to others feels oppressive. - Complaints about consequence for doing shitty things.

Re your point about 4chan; provide the story or it's just another fabrication