> I assume you mean 'undue' benefits, and not some kind of special undo feature only available to us gays :)

Whoops, fixed :P - Thank you!

> And that is emphatically not true for straight people

That is a good point. I haven't thought of it as homophobia, but perhaps it is.

I definitely recognize that I've been fortunate. Young, in a progressive area, with a good job. Hard to beat.

> 40% of NYC's homeless population is LGBT

I wasn't aware of that, and that is awful.