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This is exactly what I am talking about.

"Pathological lying" will never emblazoned on the front door, but if you work in P.R. or a Law Firm they will absolutely embrace phrases like "Framing the narrative".

At those work places "Honesty" is absolutely not a core value.

I worked at one institution where if you took a sick day, but then posted pictures on Facebook from Disneyland it was entirely acceptable. That place kind of sucked even though you could get away with anything.

Another job I had would fire people for very comparatively small lies. Things that people do all the time like pretending to have sent an email that just wasn't delivered somehow. It resulted in an incredibly honest and relaxing workplace.... once you adjusted to not telling white lies to cover your ass, and just admitting your mistakes all the time.

That company paired honesty with being much more lax than usual about punishing mistakes. And it was totally ok to say "I need a mental health sick day" and then go to Disneyland. The more honest people thrived in this environment, but many people just can't adapt to the culture at the institution.



Crazy to think there are people who are that pathological. Lying must be a regional trait where you work, I have never met anyone who lies in professional situations. Frankly, I have never heard someone give an excuse for not sending an email. What kind of weird culture would punish forgetting to send an email but not punish lying about having sent it? Crazy.




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