You don't need to write a server to use it. You need to recognize you're using the wrong tool to solve your problem.
I've used SQLite as an embedded database, as a log file, it's even possible to use it as a virtual filesystem in tcl starkits. But a high demand, multiaccess data solution it is not. Yes you can make it work but you need to justify the costs of doing all that server work when you could just use a SQL server that already meets your needs.
I've used SQLite as an embedded database, as a log file, it's even possible to use it as a virtual filesystem in tcl starkits. But a high demand, multiaccess data solution it is not. Yes you can make it work but you need to justify the costs of doing all that server work when you could just use a SQL server that already meets your needs.