I think another major benefit of martial arts is the challenging practice of socializing. In addition to the support and camaraderie you get, you also learn a ton about others’ psychology.
In my aikido (and in the past in judo and DZR jujitsu), I am continually putting others—and being put by others—in physically and mentally stressful situations. This requires sensitivity to not under- or over-stress training partners. So, in addition to being ready to respond to chaotic and potentially injurious situations, you also need to hold a model of the other person’s capabilities at the same time.
I’m sure you’ve had the experience in BJJ of practicing with someone far beyond your skill, and knowing that they are leaving you openings in hopes that you’ll see and take the opportunity. The best martial artists I’ve known have all dialed their technique to a level that was just barely within my grasp. On beyond being good is being good enough to simulate less evolved life forms :-)
In my aikido (and in the past in judo and DZR jujitsu), I am continually putting others—and being put by others—in physically and mentally stressful situations. This requires sensitivity to not under- or over-stress training partners. So, in addition to being ready to respond to chaotic and potentially injurious situations, you also need to hold a model of the other person’s capabilities at the same time.
I’m sure you’ve had the experience in BJJ of practicing with someone far beyond your skill, and knowing that they are leaving you openings in hopes that you’ll see and take the opportunity. The best martial artists I’ve known have all dialed their technique to a level that was just barely within my grasp. On beyond being good is being good enough to simulate less evolved life forms :-)