Repeated interaction is a necessary first step to friendship, you cannot befriend someone you don’t see. My gym buddies are now my friends, and we see each other regularly outside of the gym context.

Also, most of my friends don’t know when my birthday is, so that’s a bad metric imho. Birthdays are not universally important across the population.

I read a metric on a different thread recently: good friends help you move.

> Someone who does not know your birthday is not a friend.

You and I have very different ideas of what is important in life and friendship.

lol wut. I have friends now of several decades who I see regularly (make effort to visit cross country) none of whose birthdays I know or who know mine.

acquaintance ?