Not getting <firstname>@ shouldn't really be a problem. Everyone should buy their own domain name for email. It's cheap, easy to setup (and natively supported by Fastmail), and it means that you're not locked into one mail provider ever again.
Don't be <firstname>@fastmail, be <firstname>@<lastname>.me - or whatever you prefer.
I have an uncommon last name - about 3 families in the world with it as far as I can tell.
Some asshole has been squatting <mylastname>.com for over 20 years and said he "hadn't considered selling it" then wanted $100,000 for it. The same guy has been squatting hundreds of domains since the 90s, many of them 1 letter off from major websites.
What can I do against this scum? I saw that there have been many successful disputes against him so I was thinking of constructing one in a similar vein saying that his use of my unique last name to serve malware and ads is damaging to my reputation but it seems a little weak.
Also no other TLD is even an option for an email address because people always assume you made a mistake and just send things to .com anyway in my experience.
I agree. If your provider goes down you need to literally change your email and inform everyone and change it in all your services. If you own the domain, you can just switch providers.
Huh? There is more than one TLD. .us is available for US people. Every country has a TLD. There's a whole pile of generic TLDs. Finding one for you will not be a problem.
You have to realize that the general public doesn't always understand that the internet isn't always .com.
My email is josh@josh[dot]micronesia. When someone — such as a banker, or "everyday" person — asks for my email address, I overwhelmingly hear, "josh at josh dot m n at... what? gmail dot com? yahoo dot com?"
The repetition probably confused them, and it also doesn't look that nice. If you use something like me@josh[dot]micronesia I'm sure you would be met with much less confusion.
I bought a 2 letter domain on a .vg and a .mg TLD. It's amazing how many websites refuse my l@up.vg email address on signup as "not a valid email address".
Don't be <firstname>@fastmail, be <firstname>@<lastname>.me - or whatever you prefer.