N1/N2: I think you are making a mistake by concentrating on the advantage of having a single node type. Databases really aren't like other systems.
SuperMicro has a 4 node system available in which each node gets 6 disks, 2028-TP-xx-yyy. Get two of these, populate 2 nodes on each as your databases, and you can grow into the other spaces later. Run your databases on all-SSD; store backups on spinners elsewhere.
Having two node types is not a calamity compared to having just one.
SuperMicro has a 4 node system available in which each node gets 6 disks, 2028-TP-xx-yyy. Get two of these, populate 2 nodes on each as your databases, and you can grow into the other spaces later. Run your databases on all-SSD; store backups on spinners elsewhere.
Having two node types is not a calamity compared to having just one.