Your interests and the EU's interests are now very loosely alligned, and in this particular matter probably in contradiction.
“EU leaders call for UK to leave as soon as possible“
http://www.theguardian.com/politics/2016/jun/24/europe-plung...
And even clearer:
“Top EU leader: we want Britain out as soon as possible“
http://www.theguardian.com/politics/2016/jun/24/top-eu-leade...
This is no joke. This is an existential threat to the EU, and we must act firmly. I fully support these statements.
So, who is the dragger here? Get your house inmediately in order and leave.