TLDR: When asked your options are a 30 min conversation describing it to the 'normal' (yawn) or shrugging it off (looks aloof). Answer: Do both! shrug it off and extend an offer to talk about it later.

Comment: Thats a really useful article, I was expecting basically a bitch fest for the problems he describes. But it's actually quite sensitive to both the asker and asked AND solves the problem.

A+++ would buy from again!