down vote and deny all you want.
http://matt.might.net/articles/tenure/#addendum
note how all the accomplishments are a result of staying at home. and the only big effort listed was raising funds for his research.
not saying it was right or wrong. I'd probably have dropped my career in similar situation. but trying to spin it is weird.
And yes, intelligent women are the worst in that respect. Until that changes, who is in denial?
down vote and deny all you want.